Who will marry you?

Who is going to marry you?  In most states you are required to have an Officiant perform the ceremony.  The Officiant could be a Judge or it could be a pastor (minister) who has been schooled on providing care, services and rites of passage and it could be a friend or family member who got ordained online (no training, no standards and no accountability.)

It is important to understand that if you are a couple getting married in Nebraska or Iowa you do have a choice on who can officiate your ceremony.  Since 2009  Inclusive Life  has been performing religious, nonreligious and spiritual ceremonies that have been co-created with couples to insure that their ceremony honors their beliefs, their values and what they are seeking for their own unique ceremony.

Inclusive Life supports, promotes and advises using a trained professional who has experience in helping co-create ceremonies for each couple.  We are trained to listen, ask the right questions and help guide each couple through the process of making decisions to plan their day.  It is not about fitting couples into a box that everyone else was just in.  It is about asking the right questions that allows each couple to experience a unique and special ceremony.

From sharing your “Story of Love” (how you met, when you met, your first date, your first kiss, your engagement, when you said I love you…) with your family and friends to having your family bless your rings prior to exchanging them.  We are happy to work with you at most any venue you choose.  We will take the time to understand you both in unhurried meetings.

If you or a friend is planning a wedding and are not sure what the next step is, we are happy to help.  We are available day, evening and weekends.  We serve all without exception!


Rev. Royal D. Bush is the founder Inclusive Life where he serves as a multifaith Chaplain.  He shares two important messages…You are beautiful, you are loved and you are worthy, just the way you are.  And, now is time in this world that every human being is called to lift up the weak, offer a hand up to the impoverished, cherish our elders and stand up for the oppressed.

He holds a Bachelor Degree in business administration. He studied at Andersonville Theological Seminary.  He holds a current certificate of spiritual counseling with the International Institute of Faith Based Counseling and is a member of Spiritual Directors International.






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